Is Living With Purpose a Myth?
We constantly strive to live with purpose, but many of us feel we keep sliding backwards. We work so hard, and we try to learn everything we think we need to in order to educate ourselves to live with purpose.
Sometimes we may think we are living with purpose, when the truth is, we’re not. What is life all about? What went wrong? Why do we keep feeling that we are not close to our purpose? Did we waste this lifetime again?There are so many questions that need more clarity, so we need to step backwards a little to our childhood, and close all the loopholes that are keeping us stuck where we are today. Every one of us has come here with two different bubbles in our life: One bubble is your childhood, and the other one is your purpose, and both are equally important to achieve a complete transformation.
You simply have to connect both bubbles with a bridge… Let’s call it, “The Bridge of Transformation.”
From a 3-month-old fetus until the age of age of 9, most of your initial programming took place, shaping the way you act, your belief system, your mindsets, and also the limiting belief system you hold yourself in that defines your character and the way you see your world, and the world around you. That early programming has shaped you into the man or woman you are today. Imagine yourself for a moment here: You are a movie director directing your movie, and that movie is called, “My Life.” Before coming here, you began looking for actors to play different roles in your movie. Your mom and dad were the first people you hired, and for some of us, a step-dad or step-mom, or even an adoptive mom and dad were hired. You asked each one of them to play certain roles in your movie in order to expand and learn about yourself more deeply. Some roles we asked for were brutal, harsh, and dreadful; Others were kind, loving, and exciting. Then, events that occurred while you were growing up started to intensify or escalate in certain cases, depending on the decisions and choices you made. You started with an experience that started to build on top of another one. You worked on yourself for a while, and a few things worked, and a few things were healed, but you’re still attracting other things or feelings into your life today, which have formed into patterns, beliefs, or mindsets that you’ve been holding onto. That was your first bubble in your life, and it seems it was tough to swallow!
Remember: You are the director of your own movie, and you can fire people and even cut scenes from your own movie.
Why don’t you do that?
There is actually a very quick and easy way to do this!
Did you really think about your true purpose before you decided to jump into the other bubble? Did you ever consider walking over the Bridge of Transformation to understand the first bubble (your childhood), or did you instead skip those steps of growth by swimming underneath the bridge to the Purpose Bubble, disregarding the Bridge of Transformation altogether? Perhaps you became successful, or even rich. You may even be well known in your industry, but there is always that realization that success and money never brought you the happiness you always dreamt of having ONE DAY in your life. Despite all the fame and success, you’ve felt the emptiness in your heart, feeling passionless and purposeless. What you thought was your purpose was only a label you gave yourself. I always advise my clients to never build success, fortune, or an empire while you still have a major leak in your foundation. Sometimes, everything will collapse. My advice: First, go and swim back under the bridge you skipped the first time around, and walk over the Bridge of Transformation — and do it right this time! It is NEVER too late, regardless of how old you are. We came here to learn about ourselves and transform our awareness of what we learn to humanity. We are all special and unique in our own way. There is no right or wrong in whatever we chose in our life, and for sure, there is no judgment.
Some of you are wondering, “What is my purpose?”
Your purpose is very simple: To have a happy, joyful, and fulfilled life at the end.
It doesn’t matter what you do.
Some people have one or more than one area in life that they feel happy, joyful, and fulfilled in, but when there is an area in which they are not finding fulfillment, it means they are not fulfilled. Fulfillment is to balance your 4 pillars — The Mental, Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual. When mentally and emotionally you feel a sadness or regret in your life buried deep inside of you, your physical pillar will be affected, and you may be having issues with movement, finances, relationships, and health.Life is simple, so let’s stop complicating it!
In light!
Joseph